Wrong Alan. Your loss limits do not change the expectation. You are just as likely to win after reaching a loss limit as you are to win the next time you play. Stopping only delays the ongoing process of playing. It changes nothing. If you think it changes anything that is an illusion.
As for the pay tables being an illusion I can only shake my head. They are, in fact, very real as anyone who plays can tell. Every time you play a hand the pay table reveals itself. About as far from an illusion as you can get.