How do I write this without the appearance of bragging? Trust me, I wouldn't be writing this if it was just coincedence. But it happens almost everytime we go to a casino.

My lady friend is in healthcare. Pretty much a workaholic as most are in that field. She doesn't see the world in terms of dollars but rather lives. People are naturally drawn to her. Hell, I was and I'm an asshole. Thus she is blissfully unaware of her surroundings. I'm aware of everything going on in a casino from hookers negotiations to a robbery being cased. It's become 2nd nature.

For me, the casino is my work place. Not much of a fun place. So on the rare occasion that we do go to a casino together, she likes to play the slots. I think, because her job is so intense, she likes to just zone out. The bells and whistles are exciting to her. Inevitably, some guy plops down beside her. She doesn't seem to understand that she is being hit on. No, it's not just me being overzealous. Even her daughter points it out to her. Come on mom, let's move. Her daughter is very attractive as well but she has a look of "don't mess with me fucker" on her face.

I can't stand watching the money going up and down at the touch of a spin button. So I'm usually in the sportsbook because I don't mix business (playing blackjack) with pleasure. So I get a (help) signal. For instance, one time I went over to check on her. She will say, "stand right there, that guy is constantly staring at me and it's freaking me out." So I look over and sure enough not just him, but 3 other guys are tractor beamed in as well.

Now, I've walked through a casino thousands of times and seen millions of ladies sitting at a slot machine. Never have I had the urge to sit next to and hit on one. I mean if I did what would I say? Wow, your cherries and sevens are really spinning in place tonight?

Also, she seems to win or will be up and feels awful when she looses. But she can't seem to stop once she starts. Any advice?