I’m going to answer you KJ because it’s who I am. But before that I’ll answer your “Let it go” comment as many know, I’m still semi young, rich compared to the average person, bored at times and probably have many years to live while having done more than 99.9% of Americans have done in their lifetime. That’s not bragging, that’s a fact. And yea at times while talking about it, I’m also bitter towards people who think I’m special or entitled.
And maybe you are/ were in the same situation, the anger you had toward the Wiz didn’t affect your earnings or life. And as one who called you out on it, I’m guilty if you were in the sane situation, angry at a little man who at the end of the day didn’t really affect us one way or another.
The answer to the original question is Mike’s wife was never part of it, I believe he never involves her in his “business”. We can assume she lives a separate like with “Mike” from the “Wizard”. It’s obvious that most wives shouldn’t put up with their husbands drooling over models like the Wizard does. But she must believe he is playing a roll like an actor. The Wizard isn’t Mike to her. Mike could never make the statements the Wizard does towards the models he makes videos with.
My wife was part of a meetup with many other members. And Mike, pardon me, the Wizard wanted to bet on and involve her in the games he enjoys so much. He and another member bet if she could answer questions or not. I’m proud to say she cost him money. It bothered me about him, along with many other things over years. But I didn’t object at the time.
My posting history is very public and obvious over there. I defended the man many times but slowly turned over the years as I found more about him, or his public persona.
At the end of the day, unlike you KJ (for reasons I understand), people know me, know how legitimate I am and either like or hate me. But my dislike of Mike and the Wizard is based upon my personal experiences. But doesn’t change my life one way or another. And unlike you, I have no interest in making peace with him. There is no benefit to changing what I know about him.
And I will never understand why you felt it was worth forgiving what he did to you for no reason other than some clown being his “friend”.