Okay, facts:

1) Shirley, not Dancer, won the big money.
2) Dancer, not Shirley, wrote the book and used it to become a vp personality.
3) Rob has met and discussed the situation with members of Shirley's family.
4) If you've read virtually everything Dancer has written, as I have, and you come to the conclusion that he has no issues with ego and sex, then God bless you.