DUDE!! MrV described some experiences as a freshman in college. That is an 18 year old. Only YOU would try to turn that into something more. And then to say you are not judging. Judging is all you EVER do!

Now lets talk about attorney's and alcohol. Attorneys are notorious for being drinkers. Long business lunches with half dozen "cocktails". Not speaking of MrV or anyone in particular, but I would venture to say there are more functioning alcoholics that are attorneys that any other occupation. Where do you live, Mars or somewhere?