You are driving me to be mean Tasha. And I don't want to be mean. I'm not Boz.
You not PMing me is a GOOD outcome for me. We just are not friends. So I expect you to honor that promise
But really, you thinking you are friends enough with ANYONE on these forums to ask for money is the bigger takeaway I would hope you would learn. (Of course Axelwolf having a soft spot for you and actually "lending" you money doesn't help that cause. Good intentions or not, he and others that lend/give you money aren't doing you any favors.)
You could have just responded in a PM,"I'm not interested in loaning you money to help you out of your Bank overdraft mistake fee problem. I don't know you in the real world and I am not interested in helping you. I will be reporting this PM to Dan and maybe he will start a thread stating that Posters are not to be asking for loans on his Website."
Smart is knowing a Tomato is a fruit.
Wise is knowing a Tomato doesn't belong in a fruit salad.
Super Wise is knowing not to ask to borrow money from a fruit.
And we have a winner.
Line of the year.
Your prize is a slice of Mendlebread.
Keep your friends close, keep your drinks closer...