I can understand how an AP such as KJ would not want to meet most forum members, as quite a few are whack jobs and if their personae matches them in real life they're really not nice people at all.

You know, the kind that would furtively take photos of KJ then make a point of contacting the blackjack pitbosses at LV casinos in order to show them his photos and warn them to beware of the evil card counter.

Sure, it would take a completely obsessed asshole to do that but there seems to be at least one candidate if not more who'd likely jump at the chance to fuck him over in real life: sad, but true.