This is exactly the kind of shit that makes me not like you, makes everyone not like you. Nobody cares about this shit.
"I stood up for him" Boo-hoo! You stand up for someone because they are right, not because you are trying to buy their friendship.
And here is another peice of advice: Pick a sex and go with it. Don't be flip flopping around. Noone even knows what you are, male, female, or some kind of half and half trassexual/tranvestite.