Originally Posted by
DaveDandry
Yet looking over a few of your posts, you talk non stop about your personal life.
Since you are new here, Dave
, I will respond to this.
Do you know how and why some personal information about me, like that I am gay or even the 3 month homeless period as I finished high school, came to be known? neither is something I initially brought up out of the blue.
I was asked to do an interview at Wizard of Vegas forum in 2012. I don't think wizard was doing his podcast back then but even if he was, I wouldn't have done that for obvious reason. So it was the be a written question and answer interview by Mission146, who was a moderator at the time. In the pre-interview discussion Mission explained that people wanted to know more about me, than just the card counting stuff and asked if there was anything I would not be willing to talk about and I said no. Maybe that was a mistake.
So during the interview, I mentioned my Partner, in the context of our video poker play at the time. That lead to a follow up question by a member (not Mission146) asking if that partner was only a business partnership or a personal partnership as well. In other words, he was asking straight forward if I was gay. I could have said that isn't relevant, which would have only led to speculation, but I decided to answer. And that is how it became commonly know that I am gay. It is completely irrelevant to me as far as anything I share about my blackjack career and experiences but apparently it is problematic to many others.
During that same interview Mission asked about volunteer work that I had mentioned I did at the time at a homeless shelter. I only mentioned this in conjunction with my AP play. On Tuesday mornings, I would spend 3 hours doing laundry at the shelter in North Las Vegas, and then my partner and I would visit nearby, Jerry's nugget, for lunch and collect our weekly cash (jerry's nugget gave cash back then instead of free play) and each play a $25 match play and a $25 free play coupon at the blackjack table.
So when mission146 asked about my volunteering at the homeless center, I shared that I had spent 3 months when I was 18 and finishing High school living in a homeless shelter, and it was important to me to give back a little. THAT is how that information came to be known.
So it isn't like I decided to just share every aspect of my life. These things came up during an interview and I answered honestly, as I agree to do. And the haters have been twisting and turning and using things like that against me ever since.
I mean yeah, maybe I should say nothing when these haters lie, saying high school drop out, and all the other lies they repeat daily. It is obviously their insecurity not mine. Maybe I should work on that.