Alan - You may be too annoyed and pissed off at Rincon to do this, but why don't you try to set up a meeting with this manager to find out exactly how he is feeling and why he did this. Maybe there was one thing you said that set him off. Or maybe he misinterpreted something you said. Or maybe he was just in a really bad mood that day and took it out on you. With your [celebrity] status I would think you could get a meeting.

Going to Rincon is a fun part of your life. (I mean that only in a good way.) And if it is going to change based on their doing, especially after all of the years you have been going there, you should at least have the exact reason why, directly from the decision maker. (Not from a host.)