Alan, what's the difference if she's a "babe" or not. Your out-of-control gambling has cost you FOUR marriages, numerous humiliating circumstances, and leaves you forever in need of a JOB (yes, unfortunately to any vp addict that also stands for jacks-or-better) that only provides the undeniably sad fact that you will likely die a lonely old man. And for someone who has mercifully been given a wonderful second chance, you do nothing but continuously slap it right across the face. The world of normal, respectable people see this as a tremendous waste with a huge dose of being eternally ungrateful.