I'm not sure what that means or who that's directed at. For the record, I have not taken a loan from anyone since I was young and only then for small amounts. I guess there have been a few times where I asked someone I know well to front me a few hundred until the next day if I ran out of money for some reason. Or perhaps there's a crazy poker game I'm not prepared for and going home to get cash would cost you a seat or just be a pain in the ass. Hell, they are more than likely holding some of my money from a previous play that hasn't been settled up yet.
I don't say people are nice or jerks because they loan or don't loan money. I do know I'm owed a significant amount of money from making loans. Most of it I will never get back.
I have no financial motivation for being friends with anyone.