Well you have to check a couple of posts and threads.
I stated that I was not like every member on these boards that say they never paid for it.
I have paid for it many times over.
I found it strange that nobody else on these boards have or couldn't admit that they had.
I also made the point several times that if an individual is going to cheat it is better for that person to go "pay for it" because if you cheat on your wife with some friend, relative or neighbor or even stranger at a bar or online you are most likely going to get caught and it is going to cause you more money and headaches compared to just going to some call girl or massage parlor.