LOL. Maybe blackhole could take over the forum and become an online life coach.

"Saludos, my darlings
And you know who you are
Come on, let's mingle
So nice to see you.

You know, my dear
My father used to say to me
Nando, don't be a schnook.
It's not how you feel;
It's how you look."

from "You Look Marvelous," from the Billy Crystal album, Mahvelous!