Congrat's Rob on 40 years. That's quite an accomplishment. 25 for me before the curtain dropped. Expensive? Naw, marriage is expensive. You get out what you put in should be the way. If not, divorce shouldn't be the answer but it's the only option and it takes your soul. Btw, what does a soul go for these days? Back then, it was 1/2 without regard to what was invested, inherited, and preowned.
Yep, I know of those DARK places. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.