Originally Posted by
The Boz
It’s kind of funny Alan (actually not Alan) said they were done with this site and asked us to leave him alone. Yet it starts something like this, knowing it will be discussed here. Reminds me of my favorite Alan public interview.
https://labusinessjournal.com/news/2...20/news-break/
“What makes it special?
We were married at a craps table at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas. With a rabbi.
How did you select the venue?
I play video poker and I play craps, and so does my wife, Shelley. After my second divorce, I didn’t have much money, but we got engaged and I kept telling her, “I’m putting money away for a ring.” One day we were at Caesars and I got a royal flush in video poker. I won a lot of money. I told her, “The ring is funded.”
Nothing like putting money away while playing VP!
I clicked the link and started to read some of the interview. I didn't get far. I am just not very interested in Alan's "story". I don't view his as any kind of celebrity, I only know him from the gambling forums, and boy do I know him from the forums.
The antidotes that you reposted from the interview, about the funding of the wedding ring, I know Alan thinks that is all cute and cements his legacy as a gambling enthusiast, but it really is all about gambling addiction. Imagine, you supposedly love someone enough that you want to marry them and supposedly spend the rest of your life with them and you can't manage to stop gambling long enough to put some money away for a ring. It is going to have to wait until you have a winning day or winning streak. I am sorry that is not cute that is sickness.
The wedding itself at the craps table I have less of a problem with. Baseball enthusiasts, often get married at baseball parks, that kind of thing. I myself got married in a typical Las vegas wedding by Elvis. (the real Elvis I think
). I also had a small reception at a casino restuarant, comped by the casino. It was only about 20 people. I am an advatage player, it is how I make a living and it IS my life, and I love Las vegas, I bleed neon, and my partner followed me to Las vegas, to share in that life, so I wanted to incorporate this into my wedding. So I have no problem with that kind of concept, the only thing I would differentiate is Alan's gambling habits are an addiction, even to the point that family and financial problems spilled out into this forum in front of us. And there likely is a lot more from that addiction that has ruined or effected Alan's life in a negative way that we aren't aware of. I mean didn't he go through a pretty good life savings?
I am not trying to be nasty to Alan, but should that kind of thing be incorporated into a wedding, a celebration of begining a life with someone? Do drug addicts celebrate their addiction by getting married at a crack house? Harsh, but that type of thing.
Anyway, went deeper than intended and really, I have no ill will towards Alan and really do wish him the best. We know he is gambling but hopefully under control to the point that he can find some enjoyment without it controlling his life and finaces.