Originally Posted by MisterV View Post
BBB says she worked previously as an air traffic controller.

High stress and high burn out rate in that field.

As for HB, she posted a pic of herself in swimwear; she definitely was not a hot blonde, based on the pic she posted, and I said so...I used the term "fatso" IIRC in describing her and I got suspended for my opinion.

In her defense I wouldn't call her "obese," but she sure as hell wasn't "hot" as most men would probably define it, even given the fact that American women are getting chunkier every year, as are American men.
I just think that if you're going to choose a nickname which refers to your looks, it should be accurate, unless you're trying to be self-effacing.

I used to call a phone party line back in the '80s, and a guy on there called himself "Handsome". That was what he went by. I thought it was really corny, but I was dumb enough to think that maybe he really was handsome, and just vain about it.

Then I met "Handsome" at a party and he was anything but that. Not really ugly either, but really just an everyman who would only be described as handsome by his mom or his (future) wife. I really wondered why he named himself that. Why set people's expectations which you know you can't meet? Would be like me going by "Mr. Sick Pack Abs".