Originally Posted by DGenBen View Post
Originally Posted by Tasha View Post
Originally Posted by DGenBen View Post

Probably always best to disclose it right upfront.

A little due diligence can discover it fairly quickly in most cases.
I remember about 18 years ago, a guy said something like,"One of my biggest fears is thinking I'm going to be finding a VAGINA and being shocked by a PENIS. Please, if you are a "Woman," with a PENIS tell me upfront and not when we're about to have sex.
This is where the due diligence part comes in.

If a guy was expecting a vagina, and was shocked with a penis at the last minute right before having sex then he probably did not preform as thorough of due diligence as he should have.
To be fair, a LOT of people just see their Partner's genitals for the first time when they are about to have sex.