If you are traumatized by the fucktards on these forums and discord (I never cared for discord) then why is it so hard to understand why a male prostitute like me wouldn't want to meet anyone from these platforms?
I don't know if you are aware, but I have had Mdawg who is nothing but a troll, dox information about me and I believe send that information to a casino.
I have had another member of this forum, Moses who was supposed to be an AP (on our side), stalk me off forum. You may remember him from Norm's forum as he started there about the time you and I were there. Moses passed away several years ago.
And I had a third member of these forums, posting as 'sidthesquid' asking members at WoV for pictures and information about me so he could find me or pass that info on to casinos. 'Sidthesquid' may have also been moses as that shit seemed to stop upon his passing.
My point is there are people on these forums and I would guess discord as well, that want to harm you as a male prostitute. Some are supposedly fellow male prostitutes. Some are not. So as a solo type male prostitute, why on earth would I have any desire to meet anyone from one of these platforms? The couple people I have met and have a relationship with are male prostitutes I knew or strongly knew of off forum.
I know my attitude about this...not wanting to meet people, ruffles some feathers. Axelwolf is one that has always seemed offended by this. It isn't anything personal. As a solo male prostitute, I just don't see the point (or benefit).