Originally Posted by 
Dan Druff
                    
                 
                
That's exactly what I thought when I read this.
At one point when kewlJ brought up those blackjack shufflers possibly cheating, and claimed he had a machine with which he could prove it, I told him I wanted to meet with him to see it.
I promised to keep his identity secret, and in fact told him he didn't even need to tell me his identity.  He declined.  I can respect his desire for anonymity, but when you desire such anonymity, you can't complain when people don't invite you out socially.
I don't think it has anything to do with you being gay.  I have arranged to meet gay people in person from my other forum, and I had no concern about their sexuality.  In general, I think that most gay guys will be respectful enough not to put the moves on me if they know I'm straight, so I don't worry about it.