Dan what you're running into here is that most people know how to handle adversity and you don't. Just the fact that you couldn't respect the fact that you had your family with you is enough to make most of us cringe. All of your posturing and blaming the server and manager only detracts from your argument. YOU were in control of the situation and YOU chose to escalate past the point of no return.

You thrive on conflict when interacting with others. You always think you're being cheated or the other guy is "doing you wrong" and you just GOTS to be more respected....or else! May I offer a bit of advice: women don't like that in a man.

You wonder why you come up with all these medical issues you for some reason feel the need to disclose, yet much of it is right there in front of you. You need to take a chill pill when you get like that. I can see the event is still eating away at you.