Originally Posted by
Rob.Singer
Sure that makes sense, to a point. Depends upon what type of relationship it is and if the caretaker had anything to do with exacerbating the problem. Arci addicted he & the missus to the vp machines, and when they could have and should have been involved in far more productive and healthier activities, what did he do? Yup, ignore all that, entice her with a vice he knew she couldn't and wouldn't fight, and head straight to LV until he HAD to listen to the medical professionals--or likely end up in the Clark County jail system. Now of course, while you're an apologist for the guy, he rambled off to get his gambling fixes under the guise of "how important it is for caregivers to have time away".
That might hold water.....if it weren't for the tiny fact that this is a SPOUSE. When my mother died of colon cancer at a very young age, I watched my father and her mother sit by her side for almost two years, non-stop until she passed. You didn't see him sneak off to the track or go out with the guys or even go to work, making believe it was a better way just so he could do it. I never understood that until I was married and until I had a child. Maybe we have different value systems, but I learned from my father and he was 100% right. YOU NEVER ABANDON A SPOUSE IN THEIR TIME OF NEED--ESPECIALLY TO DO SOMETHING SO VILE AS GOING TO A CASINO--BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT THEY OR ANYBODY ELSE TELLS YOU, THEY REALLY, REALLY DO NOT WANT YOU TO LEAVE THEIR SIDE. IT HAS A LOT TO DO WITH RESPECT.
So goes love....or lack thereof.